Welcome to the new and improved Hot Ship!!! For this special occasion, we have a shiny new bar. It's not much different than the old one....except it's more shiny. Everything is more shiny. :biggrin: well...come in, kick up your feet, and let the girl talk begin!!! again!!

THE HOTTIES
Hottie #1: DM Captain of the Ship and Da Big Kahuna
Hottie #6: BigBlueEyes Co-Captain Extraordinaire
Hottie #2: Christee8
Hottie#3: Illustriousgirl
Hottie #4: Grasshopper
Hottie #5: Nonyabizwaz Official Hugger and Defender of the Hot Ship
Hottie #7: hcjfctc Ship's Counselor
Hottie #8: jess42
Hottie #9: stircrazy
Hottie #10: myothercarisflight815 Royal Haiku Scribe
Hottie #11: Blue Coral Official Relationships Expert
Hottie #12: i_love_dmjgmfna
Hottie #13: aydans_mommy04 Official Advice Lady
Hottie #14: vr6chick
Hottie #15: Swan
Hottie #16: Guanagirlgetslost
Hottie #17: chelly
Hottie #18: Myha Official Hot Dancer
Hottie #19: oneforsawyer
Hottie #20: lostfan710
Hottie #21: Goddessblue Official Hot Goddess
Hottie #22: EasterEgg Official Banger of the Gong
Hottie #23: LadybirdKate
Hottie #24: Pinkrose Recreational Therapist
Hottie #25: lmwwashington2 Engineer/mechanic/person who fixes things
Hottie #26: Honbun
Hottie #27: bright light
Hottie #28: Aurora10
Hottie #29: lostislandbaby Official Crew Fashionista Assistant
Hottie #30: boonelover01
Hottie #31: lostgurl
Hottie #32: lostFANatic91
Hottie #33: lost_aussie_gal
Hottie #34: saywers_hot_your_not
Hottie #35: Jezz1226
Hottie #36: acp28 Official Crew Fashionista
Hottie #37: candydandy
Hottie #38: rabia
Hottie #39: Amber
Hottie #40: liz_lost_fan
Hottie #41: baxter1323 Dino's Girl
Hottie #42: miss_emme The Answer to Life, the Universe, and Everything
Hottie #43: penyours
Hottie #44: thelizinator297
Hottie #45: Me_Kate_me_throw_rock
Hottie #46: singingpretty
Hottie #47: We_are_all_lost
Hottie #48: miss vivi
Hottie #49: jbdean Hot Ship Guru
Hottie #50: sawyer101
Hottie #51: frecklesluvscowboy
Hottie #52: slflowers101
Hottie #53: Ghost963


THE FANS
Hottie Fanboy #1: BOBBY
Hottie Fanboy #2: Danny The First Man
Hottie Fanboy #3: Porochaz
Hottie Fanboy #4: offspring515 Official Hottie Roast Pig
Hottie Fanboy #5: Dino 23F The Fanboy who doesn't realize he's a fanboy
Hottie Fanboy #6 LOSTrocksmyREDSOX The offical bad spelling and grammar fanboy
Hottie Fanboy #7: Irish Lost Fan
Hottie Fanboy #8: gusthepolarbear
Hottie Fanboy #9: Mossman The Official Official Advice Lady's Official Hot boy

Nice shiny new ship dm...
I'm here to test the new and shiny bar.... :biggrin:

and im here to test out the shiny new girls :grin:

ETA: ok that souned wrong


revised post:and im here to look at the shiny new girls :grin:

;)

red, would you like to be a fanboy?

-shuffles feet- well if you insist!!

-dance and rolls on the floor with glee-

:gora::jump::jump1::laugh::laughing::lol2::lol::cl ap::Jumpy::rotflmao:

can i be....
Hottie Fanboy #6 LOSTrocksmyREDSOX The offical bad spelling and grammar fanboy

?

*WOOT* you used my name suggestion!!! :kicking:

lmao at the shiny girls, Red

<----tries to look very shiny

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has always been shiny :grin:

oh oh can i be

Hottie Fanboy #6:LOSTrocksmyREDSOX The hyper Fanboy

or the hypt (know clue how to spell it) up fanboy, btu that might be to contrivisial if you know what i mean

-shuffles feet- well if you insist!!

-dance and rolls on the floor with glee-

:gora::jump::jump1::laugh::laughing::lol2::lol::cl ap::Jumpy::rotflmao:

can i be....
Hottie Fanboy #6 LOSTrocksmyREDSOX The offical bad spelling and grammar fanboy

?

:24:you make me laugh red. you got your wish :biggrin:

-looks at my title the does the dance whos name i forget- it's the one were you twril slwoly ina circle and point your pinter fingers in the air and starts moving your arms up and down.


-wonders how to make an avi of me doing that- any suggestions on how?

Oooooo... I love the new ship dm !!...full bar and lots of appitizers !!

* hope Im shiny enough for this new ship !*

Hi GB, redsox, Myha, dm ...certainly Danny has not lost his way to the new ship ??? !!!!:eek1:


:jump: Time to party on the new ship !! not too late though..got to loook GOOOD for Jonnys bday party tomorrow !! :biggrin:

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has always been shiny :grin: :blush:

awwwww....thanks Red :biggrin:

:blush:

awwwww....thanks Red :biggrin:

anytime ;)

Yay!! Thanks for the welcomes in the last thread.

just wanted to share a story.

Last May at Outdoor Lab I met this boy, and he was really nice. He talked to me, and stuff like that. So, in....October, from my science teacher, I got his e-mail address. I wrote to him, and he wrote back twice. That was it. I wrote back, seriously, like 7 times. But I never heard from him. So, so much for that!:drowsy:

Nice! Need shades it's so shiny in here!

Yay!! Thanks for the welcomes in the last thread.

just wanted to share a story.

Last May at Outdoor Lab I met this boy, and he was really nice. He talked to me, and stuff like that. So, in....October, from my science teacher, I got his e-mail address. I wrote to him, and he wrote back twice. That was it. I wrote back, seriously, like 7 times. But I never heard from him. So, so much for that!:drowsy:

well thats not very nice.

If a girl wrote to me like that i would be like yayay i love you!

ahh me kate, that wasnt nice of him... sounds like your probably too younge for a margarita ?!

I'll have one for you !!

margarita anyone ??... i make kicka@@ margaritas !!:biggrin:

I know!!! A measly 2 times he wrote!

ahh me kate... sounds like your probably too younge for a margarita ?!

I'll have one for you !!

margarita anyone ??... i make kicka@@ margaritas !!:biggrin:


-steals drink- (too lazy to say margarita)

Yep, too young.:D

wait for it...wait for it.... here is comes!!!!


:roflmao::jump1::Jumpy::rotflmao::cheers::wine::dr unk::beer::kicking:

ohhh ... take it easy Red !!! :eek2:

let me get you some food !!!!

*hmm...who is it that makes those yummy brownies ?*

Hi GB, redsox, Myha, dm ...certainly Danny has not lost his way to the new ship ??? !!!!:eek1:


last i heard he was watching a baseball game and playing worms with his brother :rolleyes: *sigh*

me_kate - guys like that arent worth the trouble.....here..have a pepsi :yumpepsi:

red - careful with the alcohol. ur a little young ;) and good job complimenting the goddess

Thanks Sarah!

*hmm...who is it that makes those yummy brownies ?*

hhheeeeyyyy i made brownies today!! hey were good, but i forgot to put butter on the pan so i have to pry them off to eat them.

Brownies!!!!

ohhh ... take it easy Red !!! :eek2:

let me get you some food !!!!

*hmm...who is it that makes those yummy brownies ?* hmmmmm.....that would be........ME!

*sets out extra special super duper double chocolate brownies*

*contemplates putting Red in time out*
last i heard he was watching a baseball game and playing worms with his brother :rolleyes: *sigh*

me_kate - guys like that arent worth the trouble.....here..have a pepsi :yumpepsi:

red - careful with the alcohol. ur a little young ;) and good job complimenting the goddessI think that should be a daily requirement! :biggrin:


*stretches out on chaise....grabs a drink.....feels like home.....*

Hi GB!

hmmmmm.....that would be........ME!

*sets out extra special super duper double chocolate brownies*

*contemplates putting Red in time out*
I think that should be a daily requirement! :biggrin:


*stretches out on chaise....grabs a drink.....feels like home.....*

I think it should be too -looks up with big eyes- may i have a brownie i am sorry about the drinks i couldn;t help myself. You know how it gets when there are shiny girls around

I think it should be too -looks up with big eyes- may i have a brownie i am sorry about the drinks i couldn;t help myself. You know how it gets when there are shiny girls around*gives Red extra brownies only because that last part slayed me completely. :biggrin: :24: :24: :24:*
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Hi GB!HI MK! :wavey:

-gives a big smile- yay brownies! -stuffs in mouth- mmmmmhhhhmmmmmmm.


I live to make GB happy :angel:

-gives a big smile- yay brownies! -stuffs in mouth- mmmmmhhhhmmmmmmm.


I live to make GB happy :angel:<------thinks she aquired a fanboy :biggrin:
:24:

*stretches out on chaise....grabs a drink.....feels like home.....*

Why must people always use words that I must google for pictures of!?!? :doh:

Why must people always use words that I must google for pictures of!?!? :doh:Didn't mean to make your brain hurt, oh First Man of the Hot Ship. :77:

:biggrin:

ooohhh chaises look comforatble

Why must people always use words that I must google for pictures of!?!? :doh:

it's ok babe. i had to look it up too :rolleyes:

it's ok babe. i had to look it up too :rolleyes:

I don't feel that bad for having to look up what a chesterfield was:rolleyes:
:biggrin:

I don't feel that bad for having to look up what a chesterfield was:rolleyes:
:biggrin:

everyone knows what a chesterfield is. at least...everyone in canada :biggrin:

<---is confused that she's the only one who knows what a chesterfield, chaise, ottoman, divan, etc. are.....i read a lot...:biggrin:

GB, I didn't have to look up what a chaise lounge was:rolleyes:

Ok.. sooo.. I go away for a few hours and I MISS the opening of the bright, sparkly new ship?????? UGH! I was sooo sad!! Well.. Welcome ladies..... I will join you on the Chaise (which I knew the identity of) with ata margarita... andddd I will gladly have a margarita...(which I am very familiar with those)!! MMmmmmMM:) Sooo nice to have a new ship!:) Welcome Me Kate.. as official advice lady of the thread.. I'd suggest backing off a bit... because I have known guys who have been interested in me, and have not emailed me back for several days... even weeks! Guys are wierd like that!!!! Think that maybe his internet has gone down, and hasnt been able to email you! Do you see him at school? Try talking to him at school.. feel things out! Wait a lonnnng while.. atleast several weeks to email him again... and then be like.."Haven't seen ya or heard from ya in awhile so I thought i'd write :)" Be casual.. act like it's no big deal... play hard to get:) Hope my advice comes in handy:)

stef

I have always known what a chesterfield was! Well, at least since 7th grade :24:

i know what un ottomen is -feels speical-

I have the song "Hard Habit to Break" stuck in my head now thanks to all of this Chesterfield buisiness...

CAN'T BELIEVE WE HAVE A NEW SHIP!!!!!!!!! nice!

stef-yeah that's why i said as long as you both want to try. still i think those books might help you out. one gives advice on how to do it if it's just you trying. oh and i wasn't saying that for you to move to the west side just because i care too much about people and hat divorce and the pain it brings though now i'm sure it doesn't feel too good either. well whatever you do, i'll be praying for you, your hubby and the baby.

i'm moving to the norfolk area. my honey's in the navy and that's where he's stationed.

CAN'T BELIEVE WE HAVE A NEW SHIP!!!!!!!!! nice!

stef-yeah that's why i said as long as you both want to try. still i think those books might help you out. one gives advice on how to do it if it's just you trying. oh and i wasn't saying that for you to move to the west side just because i care too much about people and hat divorce and the pain it brings though now i'm sure it doesn't feel too good either. well whatever you do, i'll be praying for you, your hubby and the baby.

i'm moving to the norfolk area. my honey's in the navy and that's where he's stationed.

NORFOLK.... YAY..... well... not really.. haha.. im just saying.. my hubby was in the army stationed in Newport News! The Norfolk area is ok.. is some parts:) Are u going to live on base? It's better on base! It's all better on base! I really am not a fan of the whole east coast of virginia, its a little too...... city for me:) I hope you enjoy it there though!!!

Hey everyone, nice place love the new name . Oooh drinks and brownies yummm. Thats what l'm eating right now but they are Safeway specials. To lazy to make supper so l go for the brownies. Welcome Red! How nice GB your own personal 'fan' boy as you lay on your chaise sipping your margaritas. :biggrin:

Hey everyone, nice place love the new name . Oooh drinks and brownies yummm. Thats what l'm eating right now but they are Safeway specials. To lazy to make supper so l go for the brownies. Welcome Red! How nice GB your own personal 'fan' boy as you lay on your chaise sipping your margaritas. :biggrin:

I made choc chip cookies instead of dinner. Great minds think alike...

Hey all btw... I took my short person to the doctor today. They didn't really know what to say so they are having us eat really bland food and staying away from restaurants for the next two weeks to see if that "breaks the cycle". Then we'll go back for a follow up.

After the appt. she wanted us to make choc chip cookies "homemade from scratch" so we did... but when I put in the eggs she almost lost it. *sigh*

:79:OMG a new Ship! YAY!

:79:*SHINES*:79:

I love it guys!

:79:*drinks a bottle of Caribbean rum and sits on the chaise*:79:

WOOT!

:79: :79: :79:

Hey BC !! Love the new avi..kind of looks like Johnny back in the 21 jump street days !! Happy Birthday to Johnny !!!!

Happy Friday to everyone at the new Hot Ship !! A new Hot Ship deserves a new recipe !!

Cheesey Artichoke Dip
1 can artichoke hearts (drained & cut into crouton sized bites)
1 cup mayo
1 cup shredded motzerella cheese
1/2 cup parmesean cheese
1 small red onion diced
1/2 Tbs garlic powder
sprinkle fresh parsley on top


Mix above ingredients bake at 350 for 20-30 min. Serve in a hollowed out fresh artichoke
(looks pretty, if you have time and patience).
Serve with crackers or chips.

whats up Ladies.
hey, how you doin?
girls like cooking, right?
anybody wanna make me some breakfast?
hee hee hee

whats up Ladies.
hey, how you doin?
girls like cooking, right?
anybody wanna make me some breakfast?
hee hee hee

I love to Cook !!!

What do you like in your omlette ??
Ive made a whole buffet of stuff...
sausage biscuits and gravy....bacon, sausage, cinnomon rolls, french toast with maple syrup, eggs benedict, eggs blackstone, blue berry and cream cheese breakfast bake...and sooo much more !!

mmmm... should i make you a plate ??
:biggrin:

Oh sheesh!.... No wonder the fanboys keep coming!

aahhhhhhh, sausage and cheese omlette? can i have a mimosa too?

:beer: Here you go... mimosas were chillin waitin for ya !!

omlette will be ready soon !

Yea GG...I'm thinking its from way back yonder in 21jumpstreet.

*grabs some bacon*

Ok.. so Aydan and I still haven't got back into our normal routine.. we are still on west coast time! We just woke up at 11!! I feel horrible sleeping this late! I keep telling myself that I will wake up at 8 and get him up, but it doesn't happen! Hubby and I only have on alarm clock so he uses it to get up for work in the morning! I rarely wake up when he gets up, so waking up to set it is almost impossible too! I hate going to bed at 1 am and wake up this late! It is a beautiful day out and I feel like I have slept most of it away:( Yesterday aydan woke up at 10... and I didnt let him have his nap, hoping that he'd go to sleep early and wake up early. He decided to wait till 11 to go to sleep last night.. so he didnt wake up till 11 this morning! Anyone deal with this jet lag before? Any ideas of how to fix this screwed up schedule!?

The dip recipe looks finger lickin' good:) I am hungry for breakfast too guana girl.. so please pass me a sausage,cheese,tomato,onion and green pepper omlette:) Have any hash browns to go with it? Oh.. and a Mamosa.. those look heavenly.. and what is this creamcheese blue berry breakfast you talk about? MmmmMMmmm:)

Any ideas of how to fix this screwed up schedule!?

The only thing I can think of is to maybe try to wear him out. Not right before bed... but during the day.


eggs blackstone


What's that? **snitches bacon and mimosa**

Hey Stef...*hands her ice cold mimosa*... I will have to bring the recipe to work with me for the Blueberry Cream Cheese Breakfast bake with a blueberry maple syrup on top....oh it is Soooo yummy !!

And its one of those egg bake things you make the day before and let sit in the fridge over night, I love those because they are great for when you have company... its pretty and yummy and easy because all the work is done ahead of time !! (:

How could I forget the hashbrowns....coming right up !!

Morning Ladies....and Dino :5:....Dino, are you gonna be a fanboy? :71:

Hey BC !! Love the new avi..kind of looks like Johnny back in the 21 jump street days !! Happy Birthday to Johnny !!!!

Happy Friday to everyone at the new Hot Ship !! A new Hot Ship deserves a new recipe !!

Cheesey Artichoke Dip
1 can artichoke hearts (drained & cut into crouton sized bites)
1 cup mayo
1 cup shredded motzerella cheese
1/2 cup parmesean cheese
1 small red onion diced
1/2 Tbs garlic powder
sprinkle fresh parsley on top


Mix above ingredients bake at 350 for 20-30 min. Serve in a hollowed out fresh artichoke
(looks pretty, if you have time and patience).
Serve with crackers or chips. GG...I make that same recipe...almost, lol. Mine doesn't use the motz or the red onion. And I sprinkle fine bread crumbs on the top before I bake it so it comes out a little browned and crispy on top, too!
Ok.. so Aydan and I still haven't got back into our normal routine.. we are still on west coast time! We just woke up at 11!! I feel horrible sleeping this late! I keep telling myself that I will wake up at 8 and get him up, but it doesn't happen! Hubby and I only have on alarm clock so he uses it to get up for work in the morning! I rarely wake up when he gets up, so waking up to set it is almost impossible too! I hate going to bed at 1 am and wake up this late! It is a beautiful day out and I feel like I have slept most of it away:( Yesterday aydan woke up at 10... and I didnt let him have his nap, hoping that he'd go to sleep early and wake up early. He decided to wait till 11 to go to sleep last night.. so he didnt wake up till 11 this morning! Anyone deal with this jet lag before? Any ideas of how to fix this screwed up schedule!?

The dip recipe looks finger lickin' good:) I am hungry for breakfast too guana girl.. so please pass me a sausage,cheese,tomato,onion and green pepper omlette:) Have any hash browns to go with it? Oh.. and a Mamosa.. those look heavenly.. and what is this creamcheese blue berry breakfast you talk about? MmmmMMmmm:)lmao....Stef....I'm not back to normal yet, either! And I had a 9 hours time difference!! I haven't been able to fall asleep until 1:30 am at the earliest all week, but it's better than it was 5 or 6 days ago....I was up until after 3!!

Hey MOC !

Eggs blackstone is like eggs benedict only instead of canadian bacon there is a tomato slice and there is crispy crumbled bacon on top !!! I actually like it better than benedict (love tomatoes!)

:)

Sarah sign me up as a fanboy..

Guana made me do this j/k.. :24:

^ ... must like people to cook for him...

Sarah sign me up as a fanboy..

Guana made me do this j/k.. :24:

:jump:
yeah yeah irish !!!! you know you want to be around all of us hotties !!

one word of advice... if we put something in a spolier, you might not want to read it !!!

:rotflmao2:

I'll take note of that..

Here you go guana and myotherscarisflight815..

just a thing to say hello

:wine:

Thanks irish !

if you need anything to eat, you just let me know , I'll whip it up for ya !!!

:essen:

Cheer's guana..

I'll drink to that!!!!! :yumpepsi:

ohhhhhh.....we gots a new fanboy! :71: *giggles*

Irish! Do NOT read this!!


bikini waxes.....pms......childbirth.....mysterious cramping.....


:ermm:

ohhhhhh.....we gots a new fanboy! :71: *giggles*

Irish! Do NOT read this!!


bikini waxes.....pms......childbirth.....mysterious cramping.....


:ermm:

LOL GB... we dont want
to scare him away just yet !!

he has no idea how much we talk about shoes !! LOL

New ship! Woot! :jump::toot:

*tries to look shiny, not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing*

Aw man, I missed breakfast this morning. :frown: That's what I get for not checking out the new ship sooner.

ETA: *doesn't succeed in looking shiny*

I know!

*dumps bucket of silver glitter on head*

Welcome Irish...:D Good to have another fan boy:) ;);)

I'm lovin the new ship! Very shiny indeed. Good thing I've got my shades handy. :cool:

Ooohh I love the chaises and ottomans...<yay for TLC!> :smile:

GB you're too funny...:roflmao:

*whips up a killer cappucino* :coffee: mmmmm.....

! I haven't been able to fall asleep until 1:30 am at the earliest all week, but it's better than it was 5 or 6 days ago....I was up until after 3!!

The longer you stay up the longer we get to see you!!

-puts hands out- brownie?

The longer you stay up the longer we get to see you!!

-puts hands out- brownie?I need my daily compliment first, Red! :biggrin:

:24:

*sigh* I should do some math......geometry is next, and that's not so bad.

P.s. I know what a chaise is, and an ottoman.....what else did you mention?

Sarah sign me up as a fanboy..

Guana made me do this j/k.. :24:

sweeet!!! we need more fanboys to dote on us :biggrin: i have a dream. a dream that one day there will be enough fanboys for each hottie to have one :biggrin: (i already got mine)

today was my graduation convocation and pinning ceremony. it was all very pompous and ostentatious. i had to kneel before the chancellor. kneel. me! before a 75 year old man!! they made me kneel. :eek2: but it was fun. its all over :D and im exhausted!!!

pics to follow!

NORFOLK.... YAY..... well... not really.. haha.. im just saying.. my hubby was in the army stationed in Newport News! The Norfolk area is ok.. is some parts:) Are u going to live on base? It's better on base! It's all better on base! I really am not a fan of the whole east coast of virginia, its a little too...... city for me:) I hope you enjoy it there though!!!
no, he didn't want to live on base, but we're going to be near the base. well as near as we can. i like the city, but i like the small town feel. there's a little city here in AZ called prescott. it's awesome cuz it has everything that's great about a city, but has that small town feel. i hope to me there once he's out of the navy.

no, he didn't want to live on base, but we're going to be near the base. well as near as we can. i like the city, but i like the small town feel. there's a little city here in AZ called prescott. it's awesome cuz it has everything that's great about a city, but has that small town feel. i hope to me there once he's out of the navy.

I think Norfolk is better in some ways than where I lived in Newport News! We lived near base, but around the base was a more.. poor area.. and usually with a poor area you have a different type of people. I don't want to sound mean, but there was more crime, and more noise.. and more..... ghetto-ness! I am glad I am out of there.. but now where we live it is sooooooo expensive.. but no crime to speak of! Keep me up to date one whats happening in the Norfolk area.. i'd love to know:)

Hey Irish welcome to the thread!! All the talk about food the last two pages l'm hungry now. My son cooked me a chicken burger, yaaa for my son. Has anyone see the commercial for the new show on TLC Take Home Chef? Hmmmm I'd take him home to cook for me.

I'd like to say welcome to Me Kate and Irish! Woo hoo!

:jump: :jump:

sweeet!!! we need more fanboys to dote on us :biggrin: i have a dream. a dream that one day there will be enough fanboys for each hottie to have one :biggrin: (i already got mine)

today was my graduation convocation and pinning ceremony. it was all very pompous and ostentatious. i had to kneel before the chancellor. kneel. me! before a 75 year old man!! they made me kneel. :eek2: but it was fun. its all over :D and im exhausted!!!

pics to follow!

Sounds like a GREAT dream to me !!! :biggrin:

breakfast is served everyone !!

Oooh...my first Love Quote on the new ship. Whatever shall it be???
I know!

:heart:Hot Love Quote of the Day:heart:

"Maria. I just met a girl named Maria, and suddenly that name will never be the same to me. Maria. I just kissed a girl named Maria, and suddenly I've found how wonderful a sound can be. Maria. Say it loud and there's music playing. Say it soft and it's almost like praying. Maria. I'll never stop saying Maria."
~West Side Story~
:in_love:

~Lady Jasmine:53:

:53::blshing1::53:

:inlove:

Hey Stef

Just wondering how you are doing ? Hope everything is going good for you !!
:smile:

is it too early for margaritas.....anyone.... ?? ;)

Hey gals... I am sooooooooo bored! I am always bored! I got up at 11 because I am still sooo messed up from the time change.. still.. and it's been almost a week! Anyway.. hubby is still asleep... whats up with that? Sleeping till 11 isn't long enough? I want to go out.. go to the park with the baby.. go to the mall... just go somewhere... anywhere... other than sitting here in the apartment another day! The weekends usually run together with the rest of the week.. and that's not cool! I used to look forward to the weekend.. now it's just like any other day.. instead of hubby being at work.. he is in the bedroom with the door shut.. either sleeping or playing his video game! He doens't like going anywhere.. he says it's the state that we live in, but I don't believe that for ONE second! I shouldn't have to move all the way across the country to get my hubby to go to the mall with me. UGH.... I'm bored.. I need friends so I dont have to rely on my husband to do things with me!

When we lived in Newport News I had the greatest friend ever! She was sooooo helpful... and so kind! She was a stay at home mom that lived in the same apartment complex as me... so we spent all our time together during the week! She had a 2 1/2 year old and was very busy trying to take care of him and get everything done in the house that she needed to get done! I would go over to her house.. and watch her son while she ran out to do her laundry... or needed 10 minutes to do the dishes or take a shower! She would do the same thing for me. It was awesome! We went to the gym together... we felt good getting a break from the kids... having an ADULT conversation.. and at the same time we were improving our bodies.. and we felt hot! Now... hubby and I had to move.. and here I am... bored.... feeling like I weighth a million pounds because I never get out of the house... the couch and the tv... and the internet (because of you guys;)) are my best friends! When I lived there.. .I didnt realize how crappy my marriage was because I had a friend to distract me:) When hubby wouldnt spend time with me... I'd call her.. she'd come over.. or I'd go over there! When I left... it was the best because we had a girl night in my living room:) We drank Miller Light and backed corn bread! I know it sounds wierd.. but we both LOVE corn bread. I MISS HER:( :( :( :(

sorry that I always rant to you guys.... I guess I do this when there isn't anyone here to deal with my girlie girlie complaining ways:) Thanks for all of you who listened to me whine and complain:) Just getting it out makes me feel better... thanks:)

* pulls up two chaise lounges*

where's a fan boy when we need him to bring us a drink !! ;) :rolleyes:

and while the fan boys at it ... can he explain why Stefs hubby is like that ?!!

<----hmm... am i asking too much of our fan boys ? :redface:

* pulls up two chaise lounges*

where's a fan boy when we need him to bring us a drink !! ;) :rolleyes:

and while the fan boys at it ... can he explain why Stefs hubby is like that ?!!

<----hmm... am i asking too much of our fan boys ? :redface:

the fan boys are here for a reason... to bring drnks... ignore our "girly" talk.. and give us a guys prospective on all the guy nonsense we deal with:)

Sits in the chaise lounge beside guanagirl... grabs a margarita because it is never too early to have a little fun:D

Hey Stef

Just wondering how you are doing ? Hope everything is going good for you !!
:smile:

is it too early for margaritas.....anyone.... ?? ;)

hehehe. it's 5 o'clock somewhere :biggrin:

and i think a certain fanboy should be around soon ;) *cough cough*danny*cough*

*Walks in, hands GG a margarita and refills Stefanie's*
*cracks his knuckles and his face twists as he ponders*

Stefanie- i think your husband is in reality just plain using you. I'm really sorry it's turned out like that. You're absolutely right in all your wants and complaining. I"m not gonna tell you he has a point or a right or anything like that. I really don't want to tell you that your husband is a "jerk"... he is your husband after all. But i can't help but tell you that he is most definitely not treating you like you deserve, neither your son. I can only encourage you to do what you feel is right. I'm praying for you :)

*takes a seat on the couch and feels frustrated at man*

Thanks danny:) You are an exception to allll the rules:) Thats why you have a very special lady in your life.. and the envy of all the other hottie ladies:)

thanks for the refill.... :)

*Walks in, hands GG a margarita and refills Stefanie's*
*cracks his knuckles and his face twists as he ponders*

Stefanie- i think your husband is in reality just plain using you. I'm really sorry it's turned out like that. You're absolutely right in all your wants and complaining. I"m not gonna tell you he has a point or a right or anything like that. I really don't want to tell you that your husband is a "jerk"... he is your husband after all. But i can't help but tell you that he is most definitely not treating you like you deserve, neither your son. I can only encourage you to do what you feel is right. I'm praying for you :)

*takes a seat on the couch and feels frustrated at man*


What a great fanboy !!!

and thats why you are, afterall, First Man of the Hotship !

Let me make you something to eat ... wings, burgers, hotdogs....oh how about baby back Ribs !!!

I have a GREAT BBQ sauce recipe !!!

1/2 cup ketchup
1/2 cup chili sauce
1/4 cup whorstechire sauce (cant ever spell that ?lol)
1/2 cup vinegar
1/2 cup dark brown sugar
1 large white onion diced
1/2 tablespoon dry mustard

put all in a pot, bring to boil stirring often, then reuduce and let simmer 20 minutes or so.....MMmmmm...

Yum! It is BBQ time!

Stefanie- thank you; i just wish i could say i was just an average guy. It makes me feel so terrible when there guys out there who treat people (their wives especially) like crap.


oH oh oh! i'll try
um...

worcestershire sauce..... did i get it???

ETA: yes! i'm awesome :rolleyes:

oH oh oh! i'll try
um...

worcestershire sauce..... did i get it???

LOL... i dont have a clue but that looks closer than what i put ! Im just a math person !!

:rotflmao2:

*Walks in, hands GG a margarita and refills Stefanie's*
*cracks his knuckles and his face twists as he ponders*


geesh. so you get GG and Stef a margarita....but what about your honey bunch :rolleyes:

Thanks danny:) You are an exception to allll the rules:) Thats why you have a very special lady in your life.. and the envy of all the other hottie ladies:)

thanks for the refill.... :)

:biggrin: i agree. he's a pretty good guy. and i agree with everything he said stef. you don't deserve to be treated badly. nobody does. you need someone who values you and ayden.

What a great fanboy !!!

and thats why you are, afterall, First Man of the Hotship !

Let me make you something to eat ... wings, burgers, hotdogs....oh how about baby back Ribs !!!

I have a GREAT BBQ sauce recipe !!!

1/2 cup ketchup
1/2 cup chili sauce
1/4 cup whorstechire sauce (cant ever spell that ?lol)
1/2 cup vinegar
1/2 cup dark brown sugar
1 large white onion diced
1/2 tablespoon dry mustard

put all in a pot, bring to boil stirring often, then reuduce and let simmer 20 minutes or so.....MMmmmm...

wow. that's got my mouth watering. i suddenly have a craving for bbq steaks.

*watchin Danny run as fast as he can to
get dm something to drink !!*

GG, have you noticed all (most) of the ads by google at the bottom of the last post is all about guana cay? It's funny but weird...:eek2:

You never asked, babe ;) *pulls a 'rita out of his secret stash* I expect you to share ;) :heart:

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/a.html

Thats a cool site... ever wonder where a "saying" came from ??
Like: As cool as a cucumber? or Dead ringer....??

<---- has had enough margaritas, i think !

Cool site:)
Bookmarked it:D

ladies!! i am totally lost. i dont start work until monday and i have no idea what to do. usually i study. but...i dont have to anymore. any suggestions?

you could go visit Danny ???

:biggrin:

You can read a good book:D
Any unread books on the shelves?

you could go visit Danny ???

:biggrin:

well that's happening in august when he gets back from siberia ;)

You can read a good book:D
Any unread books on the shelves?

i cant remember the last time i read for enjoyment. :rolleyes:

I am a compusive reader...

... hmmm maybe that should be in baby redsox' ocd thread...:rolleyes:

ladies!! i am totally lost. i dont start work until monday and i have no idea what to do. usually i study. but...i dont have to anymore. any suggestions?

I always find such peace in organizing something that has been bothering me (cause its not organized). It just feels so great after organzing something !!! Like your closet or pantry.....


*feeling like a Loser* :doh:

*invites GG over to organize her house*

GB- whoa, strange. See, i'm watching Mr. and Mrs. Smith. And i saw your avatar and did a double take. Were you Angelina's stunt double? 0_o

*holds out his hands for a brownie* :D

I have a friend who wants to be a professional organizer.. and she is actually working this summer with a company who does such things! She loves to come over and organize Aydans closet and drawers:) She's silly like that!

I just went shopping today... I didnt have much money, but I went anyway! I wanted clothes.. but didn't have enough money for that.. so I went and bought a bra (hehe) at Target.. great and cheap place to buy bras! I also bought a new wallet because mine is too big for my purse! It's cute.. small.. and brown:) I also went to the $1 section.. at the front of the store.. and got some super cute earrings and several little scrap booking items! I only spent like 20 something bucks.. but I loved going out and searching for stuff:) It made me happy:)

DM.. I would defenitly clean this weekend while u have time.. because once you start work I am sure you wont have much time!! Also.. the book thing was a good idea! Just take a nice bath at night... then curl up in bed with a good book:) It is a great way to end the night:)

I agree with the book suggestion. I think me and myothercar would get along quite nicely. I think I'm a compulsive reader too. :smile:

*cute/funny story* When my brother was still here, I would go to his room and we'd have ourselves a 'reading party' :geek: :book: . He'd read his book and I'd read mine. I don't know why we found it enjoyable...I guess it was fun to do something together...even if we weren't actually talking to each other. :laugh:

Silly us...:rolleyes:

dm just enjoy not doing anything, its ok to do. I've gotten quite good at it. heehee. Stef is there a park nearby where you live? Is there an organization in town that knows about women getting together for playdates and such. Then at least you can get out and start making friends. I'm not sure if the Welcome Wagon, or if there is such a thing there, would have such information. I bought a new top today at the SuperStore a t-shirt made out of that new really soft cotton. Its a v-neck with cap sleeves. It was only $8 good deal.

Miss Emme- what movie is your avatar from? i've been trying to figure it out and it's slipping my mind. Is it V for Vendetta?

No its Cillian Murphy in Breakfast on Pluto.

Ok, i was way off ;)

Ok, i was way off ;)

it's ok danny. normally he doesnt look like a woman ;)

very true dm. He was absolutely beautiful in the movie. I couldn't believe it.

Dude, Cillian Murphy eh? That's the guy who is good at playing villains such as Scarecrow in Batman Begins as well as in Red Eye.

Yes thats the one.

The only actor i know named Cillian hahaha

One of a kind he is. Whats everyone up to? I'm trying to win a game of mahjong, the hockey game is on in the background. I'm too lazy to get up and change the channel.

Wellllll...... you asked what I am up too... right now I am sitting down eating icecream (cappuccine flavoed... tastes more like khalua.. MMmmmMMMMMmmmm) Anyway... so... im eating icecream watching a re-run of CSI. I hate this episode... it makes me sad... it's about a baby that was left in a car too long in the summer heat! Speaking of which... the next to mine at the mall today was surrounded by mall security people today as I was coming out of hte mall! Turns out... this family had locked thier baby in thier car! I heard the woman say that the keys were in the trunk (I am assuming that they unlaoded their packages into the trunk and accidentally dropped thier keys in the trunk! Before I go Aydan loaded into the car and the few things I bought... fire and rescue had showed up and had pryed(?) the door open and freed the baby! It wasn't tooooo hot out today, but when I got in my car and buckled my belt I just sat there for a minute, to really understand that the heat on the outside of the car is nothing like the heat on the inside of the car! Anywayyyy.. my whole point for eating icecream like a mad woman is.. no shock.. my hubby! He keeps saying stuff like.."when we move to Washington." and I hate that... because he doesn't discuss it.. he just tells me! Anyway... I approached him about it, and it only made him mad.... and we argued.. so.. that is why I am hear scarfing down khalua flaved icecream wishing that it really had khalua in it!MMmmmMM:) What is everyone else up to?? :D :D (I am not crazy.... see... I am not crazy) :D :D

One of a kind he is. Whats everyone up to? I'm trying to win a game of mahjong, the hockey game is on in the background. I'm too lazy to get up and change the channel.

hmmm... let's see... I just played a game of "go fish" with the kid and then she wanted to play "show and tell" which means she gives me one of her toys and then she scrounges up a toy and then we take turns telling each other about it. It's kind of funny because I was sharing about this happy meal toy she has which is practically her prized possesion. But I go into all this detail about it color and she had clipped a barette onto it and crammed a Barbie crown on it's head. Then she wanted a snack before bed but then gagged at the thought of eating *sigh* so she just went to bed.

Now hubby is studying so I'm figuring out what ot do next.

Clean? No way.
Eat? Tempting... but not sure. I think stef may have gotten the ice cream calling to me though. I have ice cream sandwiches in the freezer.

go for the icecream sandwhich:) MMMMmmm:D

yay for ice cream sandwhiches!!

mmmm... icea cream sandwhiches... I love the Chipwiches (2 choc chip cookies with vanilla ice cream inside and choc chips around the ice cream....mmm)

*too early for ice cream....maybe later*

Morning Hotties and Fanboys !!! Hope everyone has a nice day !! its kind of rainey out...good day to sleep in and then do chores around the house ! Maybe I should go help GB organize !! ;)

Whats everyone doin today ??

My hubby is re-fitting the hurricane shutters for the new stone patio etc... fun stuff !! hes workin so hard I am going to be a good little wifey and make him lemonade and Big roastbeef sandwhich with all the stuff he likes on it to keep his energy up !

Mornin' all!

I went for the ice cream sandwich after all. I'm all pmsey so I put some Magic Shell on it for fun. I wouldn't reccomend it. :rolleyes:

Right now I'm having my coffee and waking up & then we're off to church. After that I should run errands, but I don't feel like it.

hey, you know who is a great band? Pearl Jam. I just bought their cd lats night and i already like them!!

You should definatly listen to the.

MOC-can your daughter eat ok? like foods that dont' have strong smells?

hey, you know who is a great band? Pearl Jam. I just bought their cd lats night and i already like them!!

You should definatly listen to the.

geesh. i feel old. IMHO, old school pearl jam is better. you should try getting some of the older cds red. like...the ones from before you were born ;)

Marlene- can your daughter eat ok? like foods that dont' have strong smells?

Do you mean me? I think you do.

Um... she can. But the smell is definately a trigger. She had trouble with gross looking food too, but smell is a bigger factor.

She can eats some foods though that you wouldn't normally think she could. For example... she loves guacamole. She can scarf it down like nobody's business.

I got your name right didn't i? lol :redface:

nope. :biggrin:

But it doesn't matter... I would prefer you not to use it.

Oh right! I remember what it is now ;) but ok, if you insist lol.

Thanks Danny! So anyway... you had an idea about my daughter?

No, sry lol... i was just curious. Because she would need to keep eating to get the nutrients she needs but if smelling the food makes her gag, that'd be kinda hard. :undecide:

Yeah. It's puzzling. We took her to the doctor and although she is puzzled too... the good news is that she has gained weight since her last visit so it's not affecting her growth. She's eating... and she hasn't lost it for a week or so but it almost seems to me like at first it was the smells... but now she feels anxious on top of it, so I'm getting a bunch of snacky kid food for her this afternoon and hopefully we'll change the pattern from...

meal... anxiety
to
man I'm starving!... where's the food

yeah that's a good idea....

perhaps like graham crackers and fruity snacks would be good. Those aren't real pungent and she'd probably like them too :)

Oh yeah totally. She could actually survive on berries and cheese if she had to. (My frinds call her French.)

I finished the unit in algebra about Inequalities and equations, so now I'm on geometry......I remember whn geometry was easy, and we played with rubber bands on peg boards! And it wasn't even that long ago! That was in like....well, maybe it was. Aaa! I can't remember what grade that was! Never mind:rolleyes:

Lol, my brother did that! Do you use Math U See?

I don't think we used that. I just remember I had a blast with those rubber bands,a nd was disspaointed when we had to actually start working in our books.

rofl! that's great lol

i loved geometry... that would be my dream job.. teaching geometry (:

i wasn't a geometry person, but i loved algebra.

Thanks Danny!! Sort of like how I feel now!!:D

Geometry isn't too bad. I don't mind it as much as other things we have to do in algebra. like transformations. My parents never had to learn that!!!!! I ask my mom" Did you ever have to learn such and such", and she's like "What the heck is THAT??"

nope. :biggrin:

But it doesn't matter... I would prefer you not to use it.I know what you mean, MOC.....I'm the same way, lol. :redface:

My mom said we MIGHT go to Scotland sometime later THIS year.:jump1:

I know what you mean, MOC.....I'm the same way, lol.

oh.... woops... i feel like a real donkey's butt right now :p

Hey GB... broken cup? Is that new?

Hey GB... broken cup? Is that new?yup....as always....another song quote, lol.
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oh.... woops... i feel like a real donkey's butt right now :p:harhar1: it's okay danny...

so i start my job tomorrow. tomorrow i will be a "real nurse". ooooh...i'm nervous!!! :biggrin:

Announcer Dude:aannnndddd ladies and gentlemen it is time once again for Complement GoddessBlue so John and get a brownie!



:harhar1: it's okay danny...

It's alwys ok when your around!!


Announcer Dude: Oh I must say that wasn't a very good one, will John get is brownie for complemnting GB? Lets go to Chase with the stats.

Chase:Thank you Announcer Dude, yes well right now it doesn;t look good for John for 2 reasons:

1.His compliment wasn;t all that great

2. He did not compliment her yesturday...I think, and if he did yesturday he forgot one day....i think.

Announcer Dude: Thank you Chase, now that the stats have been said i want to know what you think. Please click here (http://www.freewebs.com/gbpolls/) to cast your vote, but remember 'lagers can say what ever the hell they want, but only GB can decide.

Danny were you in the our real names thread, cuz Marlene is my name. I had posted it in there. dm good luck on your first day. The hotties are all rootin' for you. You'll do fine!! I didn't like Algebra in high school. But I took it later as an adult and kicked butt. got an A-. :biggrin:

Lol, i knew it was someone! I pulled a "my dad" ;) Got names mixed up lol.

Announcer Dude:aannnndddd ladies and gentlemen it is time once again for Complement GoddessBlue so John and get a brownie!




It's alwys ok when your around!!


Announcer Dude: Oh I must say that wasn't a very good one, will John get is brownie for complemnting GB? Lets go to Chase with the stats.

Chase:Thank you Announcer Dude, yes well right now it doesn;t look good for John for 2 reasons:

1.His compliment wasn;t all that great

2. He did not compliment her yesturday...I think, and if he did yesturday he forgot one day....i think.

Announcer Dude: Thank you Chase, now that the stats have been said i want to know what you think. Please click here (http://www.freewebs.com/gbpolls/) to cast your vote, but remember 'lagers can say what ever the hell they want, but only GB can decide.*can't decide whether or not to give Red a brownie.....on the one hand....where was my compliment? ...on the other....you made me laugh out loud!!*

It's alwys ok when your around!!

-trys not to laugh- it was horrible!

you deserve a compliment GB !!!!!

make him work for it !!!! :biggrin:

Hey making one laugh is worth a brownie, even if its a point!! ha,ha

you deserve a compliment GB !!!!!

make him work for it !!!! :biggrin: I agree!! :laugh:
Hey making one laugh is worth a brownie, even if its a point!! ha,ha*contemplates giving Red half a brownie*

Yeah half a brownie.

Do you think Red deserves a brownie?


sure give him a brownie. But tell him to step up on the "fan" boy stuff. Ya hear that Red?

*gives Red 1/2 a brownie*

I was thinking... maybe we dont appreciate our fanboys enough...maybe we could give them some "pointers" like each of us say something that the special men in our lives have done for us that makes us happy...

like when my hubby takes the dog out sometimes he comes back and gives me wild flowers that he picked for me .... just a real sweet thought that means a lot...

*hoping the dog didnt pee on the flowers first* :eek2:

I do certain things for my hubby hoping that he will get the hint and do them for me... one thing I love to do is put a note somewhere where he will find it before he leaves for work. I usually write something like "love ya babe.... have a great day" something simple and sweet:) I would LOVE to wake up and see a note from him saying something like that! It isn't much... but it means a lot and says.."I was thinking of you... just wanted to let you know:)"

Stef...that's a sweet thing to do. I've been meaning to ask you....how long have you and Irving been married?

I do certain things for my hubby hoping that he will get the hint and do them for me... one thing I love to do is put a note somewhere where he will find it before he leaves for work. I usually write something like "love ya babe.... have a great day" something simple and sweet:) I would LOVE to wake up and see a note from him saying something like that! It isn't much... but it means a lot and says.."I was thinking of you... just wanted to let you know:)"

thats sweet... i do that too... and i opened a drawer one time at the office and there they all were... he kept all the little notes I left him. I thought that was sweet !!!!

(he has his moments!);)

Don't give too many ideas! Sarah will think i didn't think them up on my own! I was already planning on doing both of those :rolleyes: lol

oh Danny... we all know you dont need any pointers !! ;)

* points to red* maybe he does ?? LOL just kiddin Red :biggrin:

Ya hear that Red?

*gives Red 1/2 a brownie*

-takes brownie and stares- thank you! -shove brownie in mouth-

Announcer Dude: What a shocker folks! Half a brownie! This has never happened in my whole career! What a great for tv! Wel, i will see you tomrrow, with a new poll.

Stay Sexy Ladies

oh Danny... we all know you dont need any pointers !! ;)

* points to red* maybe he does ?? LOL just kiddin Red :biggrin:
:O If your intention was to shoot an arrow through my heart...bullseye!!

but on a little more of a serious note, i have m off days but i can compliment, and you have to admit GB did give me much to work with, no offense GB!

and now for something completely different

Danny I translated or little spanish with, and i must admit it is pretty smoth ;)


(I used to move references in my post, pm me with both of them, and you win a prize!)

goddessblue... Hubby and I have been married for about 2 and a half years.... not that long.. but sometimes it seems like long enough:)

guanagirl... your hubby does seem to have his sweet moments! Which is always nice:) My hubby doenst have a single bone... not even his teeniest bone..(which I believe to be in the foot... or ear... hmmmm dm.. can u help?) is romanitic! It's sad.. because he could try to be romantic..but even that's beyond his relm of understanding!Hheheh

hehehehe mommy your post count is a lesser evil hehehehehe

-but on a little more of a serious note, i have m off days but i can compliment, and you have to admit GB did give me much to work with, no offense GB!* thinks if i really worked it i could get arrrested *

:24:
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goddessblue... Hubby and I have been married for about 2 and a half years.... not that long.. but sometimes it seems like long enough:)

guanagirl... your hubby does seem to have his sweet moments! Which is always nice:) My hubby doenst have a single bone... not even his teeniest bone..(which I believe to be in the foot... or ear... hmmmm dm.. can u help?) is romanitic! It's sad.. because he could try to be romantic..but even that's beyond his relm of understanding!HhehehAwww Stef....the first few years should have romance coming out of your ears. :( Makes me wonder how he won such a great girl like you!.

oh Danny... we all know you dont need any pointers !! ;)

* points to red* maybe he does ?? LOL just kiddin Red :biggrin:

:biggrin: :biggrin: yeah danny doesnt need any pointers. he's good. i mean...he's really good ;)

now me on the other hand...i need some help with the romanticism. so little notes work? :rolleyes: hmmm. might have to try that.

stef - not sure what the small bone is. it's prolly in your foot. but regardless....every girl deserves some romance.

Easy GB, he's my brother's age for pete's sakes ;)

hey sarah...
a good way to do the note thing...
make him something to eat and put it in a ziplock or baggie and write on the baggie a little something sweet !

Men respond when foods involved !! :essen:

Easy GB, he's my brother's age for pete's sakes ;) that's all i'm sayin'!!! :24:
hey sarah...
a good way to do the note thing...
make him something to eat and put it in a ziplock or baggie and write on the baggie a little something sweet !

Men respond when foods involved !! :essen:inside the medicine cabinet, on the bathroom mirror before you go to bed (if he gets up before you), on his steering wheel...

Hey Red...Im so sorry, I didnt mean to hurt your feeelings..

Heres a whole plate of brownies... Just for You !!! :redface:

Hahaha, GG is goooood! :p

But you know what, it doesn't matter to me if Sarah is good with words and the like. As long as she'll let me dote on her, i'm happy. :biggrin:

Hey Red...Im so sorry, I didnt mean to hurt your feeelings..

Heres a whole plate of brownies... Just for You !!! :redface:

-eyes widen- yayayayayayay thank you!!!!! I love you! -eats brownies- you didn;t really hurt my feelings though, i was just playing around xDDD;;;;;;;


but on a more serious note, i need some romantic help too, cause im trying to win this girl over.

ahhhh...so whats she like Red ???

guys who are nice and sweet and funny are easy to win *us* over @@

she is really funny, nice sweet we can talk for hours (which is i have problems with doing with other girlfriends) we make each other laugh, we tell each other everything, and help each other with our prbalems, but ther eis this other guy, who is my friend, and they are going out, and i don;t want them to break up but i do, i don;t know what to do!

she is really funny, nice sweet we can talk for hours (which is i have problems with doing with other girlfriends) we make each other laugh, we tell each other everything, and help each other with our prbalems, but ther eis this other guy, who is my friend, and they are going out, and i don;t want them to break up but i do, i don;t know what to do!That's a sticky situation, Red. You're the "buddy's friend" right now. So the girl probably feels sort of safe hanging out, talking and even flirting with you. But that's confusing, I know! Girls around your age are verrrrrry confusing, lol. You didn't say if she and your friend are having any problems or not. But in the event they do break up, don't move in too fast or you might threaten your friendship. On the other hand, don't wait long enough for some other guy to move in. I probably didn't help much, lmao. In the meantime, just be the cool guy we know you are. She'll remember that. And you can let her know that you like her in other ways than flat out saying "I like you." A look, etc....she could end up making the decision for you.

ohhhh... you need to be careful ! If hes your friend, you dont want to hurt him. If shes that comfortable talking with you about everything it sounds like maybe its only a matter of time before she wants to be with you instead of him. I dont know about other girls but I think we girls usually only feel "that" comfortable with a guy we want to be with. So, be patient and it will happen. :redface: Do be careful though...could be a sticky situation with your friend.
Good Luck !

exactly that is the probem, -sigh- but they seem to have a great relashonsip, i don;t know wether i be good to mysef or my firneds :\

<------ **fell asleep on the couch** :blink:

oh.... woops... i feel like a real donkey's butt right now :p

No worries... :hug:

so i start my job tomorrow. tomorrow i will be a "real nurse". ooooh...i'm nervous!!! :biggrin:

Yay hooray!!!! :ntworthy: May tomorrow be the first day of a fulfilling career!!!!

oh good the adive giver and the consler are both here! help!

HEy all... Goddessblue.... hubby won me over because he used to be sweet!! He was sent to Iraq shortly after we started dating and we got to know each other t hrough letters... then when he got back things moved fast! He was awesomly sweet... now.. he's not so awesomly different!

redsox... lets seeee.....I have a theory... that you need to make yourself happy first.. then worry about other second ( i know this sounds stupid.. .but listen.. my whole life I have tried to make other people happy.. and it never works! Everyone else looks out for themselves.. the only person who will have YOUR back is you!).. as long as it doesnt indanger other people. Now... That doesnt mean that you should go blindly into a situation because it pleases you..Give great consideration to the situation... think about this girl.. think about how much you like her. Will you going farther with that ruin more relationships you have? Will you loose more than you will gain? Weigh your options and think about the outcomes of your actions before you act!

My advice was general... but that's all I can give right now without knowing more about the situation!

exactly that is the probem, -sigh- but they seem to have a great relashonsip, i don;t know wether i be good to mysef or my firneds :\
one-you can't really see exactly what's going on in a relationship from being on the outside. two-just because they have a good relationship now, being so close to her could cause problems in the future.
if i were you i'd tell her to not be so, well lack of a better word, intimate in her conversations with you and if she can't talk to her boyfriend about those things than she needs to find a female to talk to. it'll be hard, i know, but in the long run it would be better.

wow when you say the truth is the truthyo mean it xD;

oh good the adive giver and the consler are both here! help!

Aw thanks Red!

I am pretty sure that it is a "man rule" that you do not date your friend's girlfriends. Even if they break up you are supposed to wait for like six months or something. You totally don't want to start drama. It'll give you a bad reputation... but also... you may feel like you are meeting your emotional needs... but you'll be hurting other people too and you don't want to that ... it's also a quick fix to a long term situation. And that just won't be a good situation. Besides, you do not want to encourage the lady in question to start a pattern of dumping boyfrineds. That will not help her learn how to have healthy relationships early on. So um... hold back.
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Well ladies... since I fell asleep on the couch earlier... here I am all by my lonesome.

Can't sleep and it's nobody's fault but mine. *sigh*

Thought this was sooo nice... and wanted to share with you all....

> >>
> > Daddy's Poem
> >
> > Her hair was up in a pony tail,
> > her favorite dress tied with a bow.
> > Today was Daddy's Day at school,
> > and she couldn't wait to go.
> >
> > But her mommy tried to tell her,
> > that she probably should stay home.
> > Why the kids might not understand,
> > if she went to school alone.
> >
> > But she was not afraid;
> > she knew just what to say.
> > What to tell her classmates
> > of why he wasn't there today.
> >
> > But still her mother worried,
> > for her to face this day alone.
> > And that was why once again,
> > she tried to keep her daughter home.
> >
> > But the little girl went to school
> > eager to tell them all.
> > About a dad she never sees
> > a dad who never calls.
> >
> > There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.
> > Children squirming impatiently,
> > anxious in their seats
> >
> > One by one the teacher called
> > a student from the class.
> > To introduce their daddy,
> > as seconds slowly passed.
> >
> > At last the teacher called her name,
> > every child turned to stare.
> > Each of them was searching,
> > a man who wasn't there.
> >
> > "Where's her daddy at?"
> > she heard a boy call out.
> > "She probably doesn't have one,"
> > another student dared to shout.
> >
> > And from somewhere near the back,
> > she heard a daddy say,
> > "Looks like another deadbeat dad,
> > too busy to waste his day."
> >
> > The words did not offend her,
> > as she smiled up at her Mom.
> > And looked back at her teacher,
> > who told her to go on.
> > And with hands behind her back,
> > slowly she began to speak.
> > And out from the mouth of a child,
> > came words incredibly unique.
> >
> > "My Daddy couldn't be here,
> > because he lives so far away.
> > But I know he wishes he could be,
> > since this is such a special day.
> > And though you cannot meet him,
> > I wanted you to know.
> > All about my daddy,
> > and how much he loves me so.
> >
> > He loved to tell me stories
> > he taught me to ride my bike.
> > He surprised me with pink roses,
> > and taught me to fly a kite.
> >
> > We used to share fudge sundaes,
> > and ice cream in a cone.
> > And though you cannot see him.
> > I'm not standing here alone.
> >
> > "Cause my daddy's always with me,
> > even though we are apart
> > I know because he told me,
> > he'll forever be in my heart"
> >
> > With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest.
> > Feeling her own heartbeat,
> > beneath her favorite dress.
> >
> > And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in
> > tears.
> > Proudly watching her daughter,
> > who was wise beyond her years.
> >
> > For she stood up for the love
> > of a man not in her life.
> > Doing what was best for her,
> > doing what was right.
> >
> > And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the
> > crowd.
> > She finished with a voice so soft,
> > but its message clear and loud.
> >
> > "I love my daddy very much,
> > he's my shining star.
> > And if he could, he'd be here,
> > but heaven's just too far.
> > You see he was a policeman
> > and died just this past year
> > When airplanes hit the towers
> > and taught Americans to fear.
> >
> > But sometimes when I close my eyes,
> > it's like he never went away."
> > And then she closed her eyes,
> > and saw him there that day.
> > And to her mothers amazement,
> > she witnessed with surprise.
> > A room full of daddies and children,
> > all starting to close their eyes.
> >
> > Who knows what they saw before them,
> > who knows what they felt inside.
> > Perhaps for merely a second,
> > they saw him at her side.
> >
> > "I know you're with me Daddy,"
> > to the silence she called out.
> > And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with
> > doubt.
> >
> > Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been
>
> > closed..
> > But there on the desk beside her,
> > was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose.
> >
> > And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her
> > shining star.
> > And given the gift of believing,
> > that heaven is never too far.
> >
> > They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to
> > appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget
>
> > them.

GG... That's beautiful... Really beautiful... Children have a special gift...

Thanks for the reading break btw... I'm cleaning walls and ceiling and stuff in my appartment today.. and it's HOT here.. 80 degrees outside... more inside (I'm afraid to check actually...)

Does anybody feel like coming to help me?? :5:

:crybaby: That was SO SWEET GG.

__________________________________________________ ____________________

Love Quote!
"If I could measure the beauty of her eyes, I was born to look into them and know myself."
~Shakespeare in Love~
;)

I got that in an email awhile ago gg... and when I read it I amlost cried... it was soooo sweet!!! :D


Ok... so.. Aydan won't get back to his normal schedule!! He has been taking his naps late in the day.. so then he doesnt want to go to bed until like 11 or 12.. so last night I thought I had the cure... when he went down for his nap (around 7) I put him in his bed and told him night night.. and acted like it was his night time.. not his nap time! Aydan usually sleeps 12 hours.. so if he goes to bed at 12 at night.. he won't wake up till 12 in the morning... 11.. to 11... and so on.. so I thought that by putting him to bed early that he would wake up early... so it should have been 7 to7. Well... this morning hubby leaves for work and I fall back to sleep... and I wake up and I realize that several hours have passed since hubby left (around 7) even though I hadn't looked at the clock. Well.. I roll over and squint.. and it was 11!!!!! 11!!! So I jumped up and went in to get Aydan because HE CAN'T be sleeping this long!!! Soo.... after that.. I have NO idea what to do to get him back to his normal schedule!

GG said to list things that our hubbies can do that are romantic and make us ladies happy so here is another for you guys.... every morning hubby is in a rush getting out of the house and usually doesn't even say bye to me! I have confronted him about this, but he didn't seem to care! I am usually still sleeping when he leaves so he said that he doesnt want to wake me up. Well.. everynow and then when he's feeling nice he will sneak in quietly and give me a bigggg kiss.. big enough that it wakes me up so that he gets credit for it;) Anyway... it's a simple 5 second gesture that lasts the whole day:)

GG.....that made me cry....

Good morning ladies!

I agree with Stef, fanboys.... one little kiss goodbye in the morning can make us smile all day long !! :wub:

:flower: :wavey: :balloon: :kicking:
Happy First Day at work Sarah !!!!
Hope you had a great day !!

Sarah.. as soon as you get back.. let us know how work went:) we are all hoping it went wonderfully!!!!!!!

Good afternoon ladies! <and fanboys :smile:>

:clapping: You'll do awesome today Sarah! We're so proud of you!:thumbup:

Well...if I had a special someone that did special things for me, I would probably contribute. ;) As of yet I don't, but hey. One day. <not that I dont have a prospect ;):crush: >

GG that was really sweet! :angel:

yay! i found the hot ship again! see i found it... then i went for tea and it was gone.... so i looked through all of these pages and coundn't find it! then i went on my history and found it again:D

i read ggs poem it is sooo sweet! i was like in tears! i remember getting a chain mail which had a poem attatched it was such a sad poem( il try and find it) it was about drunk drivers and the chain mail was a petition or somthing but it made me cry too :(

Hi Bright Light !!! So nice to see you again !!!

:wavey:

Yes! Welcome back! It's tricky when a thread closes sometimes.

:wavey: Brighty!!

I just took a long, steamy bubble bath!!! And the kids didn't bother me once! :shock:
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i'm thinking about changing back to my bear....

:wavey: Brighty!!

I just took a long, steamy bubble bath!!! And the kids didn't bother me once! :shock:
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i'm thinking about changing back to my bear....

ahhh...the bear is still there... I like your avi !!!

i'm starting to get self conscious, lmao. i want to hide behind my bear again.

Hey... You're a hottie... enjoy it while it lasts !!!

;) :biggrin: ;) :biggrin:

*writes out a note to Red which says*

"John,
Tell GB she looks good in her avi, you'll not only get brownies, but she'll keep her awesome avi up!

Danny"

So speaking of the poem.... was anyone here directly affected by 9/11 or know anyone that passed away in it?

Danny,

I knew 2 people who worked in the building and were in it when it happened (not close friends, they were a year behind me in school but I knew them) they did not make it out. :frown:

Announceer Dude:It is time again to see if john has what it takes to get a brownie from GB by complimetning her. Les see hes got...

GG.....that made me cry....

Goddess Blue, you make me cry when you aren;t around. :crybaby:


Announceer Dude:Well I must say that was better then yestrdays, but lets see what alfred has to say wit the stats.

ALfred: Thank you Announceer Dude, and you are right, John has a better chance then he did yesturday, but i am not sure if that compliment has what it takes against our poll. (http://www.freewebs.com/gbpolls/) Please go and vote so GB knows what the 'lage feels about it. Thank you Announceer Dude , back to you,

Announceer Dude: Well Alfre d, we still need to know if you think he will get the brownie,

Alfed: right you are, i am give this a 70% chace of a brownie.

Announceer Dude: Thank you very much, and thats all the time we have for today, but come back tomorrow, to see our next compliment. Also, that site has been updated. Now it syas the compliment that John gave to Gb. come and cast your vote now! (http://www.freewebs.com/gbpolls/)

so i made it through day one. i'm a nurse. w00t!! the day went by pretty fast. but i feel like a real tool sometimes. like...i'm on this huge learning curve. its not easy going from the student role to the professional role. all that responsibility. geeesh. i need to brush up on my meds ;)

GG said to list things that our hubbies can do that are romantic and make us ladies happy so here is another for you guys.... every morning hubby is in a rush getting out of the house and usually doesn't even say bye to me! I have confronted him about this, but he didn't seem to care! I am usually still sleeping when he leaves so he said that he doesnt want to wake me up. Well.. everynow and then when he's feeling nice he will sneak in quietly and give me a bigggg kiss.. big enough that it wakes me up so that he gets credit for it;) Anyway... it's a simple 5 second gesture that lasts the whole day:)
well that's something! i think it's good to focus on the positive things most of the time instead of the negative. it can really change your perspective. like today i got really angry at my man, but i decided i wasn't going to let my anger get the best of me. when i started focusing on the good things instead of what angered me i was able to tell him how i felt without being super angry and able to think about what i was saying before i said it. much better than earlier when i just ranted and raved to him which got him angry at me. things are better now.:rolleyes:
well my guy does all sorts of things. most recently he sent me 30 red roses!!!

congrats dm!! I hope you will have fun through the years with your job

well that's something! i think it's good to focus on the positive things most of the time instead of the negative. it can really change your perspective. like today i got really angry at my man, but i decided i wasn't going to let my anger get the best of me. when i started focusing on the good things instead of what angered me i was able to tell him how i felt without being super angry and able to think about what i was saying before i said it. much better than earlier when i just ranted and raved to him which got him angry at me. things are better now.:rolleyes:
well my guy does all sorts of things. most recently he sent me 30 red roses!!!

30 roses... for no reason? Wow... I get a kiss.. and that's it! Hubby is talking about moving to Washington again.... he was saying that he isn't happy because he isn't close to his friends.... or his family. I then told him that I will not be happy moving to Washington away from my friends and family. Anyway... hubby was sulking because he is bored with his life.. he was sitting around complaining.. and he basically said that he is moving... without me................

Our relationship isn't great... .


and moving that far wouldnt do us any good.......


right?????


Things havent been working for so long.... so.....

I just need support ladies.... :(


P.S.......... YAY dm:) Good to go for your first day:) Was it GREAT!!!???

Wow AM. It sounds like you're may find yourself at a crossroads. If he moves forward with his moving plans then you will essentially need to choose to move to WA or back home. Am I right?

:heart::heart:
Love Quote
"Have you never met a woman who inspires you to love? Until your every sense is filled with her? You inhale her. You taste her. You see your unborn children in her eyes and know that your heart has at last found a home. Your life begins with her, and without her it must surely end."
~Don Juan DeMarco~
:in_love:

~Lady J:53:


:inlove:

:inlove:
Ahhhh BC...Love that !

me too!!!! lol.

me three.....

Must use that somewhere.... *steals quote*

Lady J.... I love that line... totally adorable!! I think that all woman sit around and write these things... movies especially.. and here every lady is kept dreaming she had a man like the one she sees portrayed by some dashing young man. Someone who treats her like a lady and gives love, trust, respect and whispers sweet nothings into her ear whenever the moment is right! Each lady dreams of finding someone who will always put her first, and come rescue her just in the nick of time! Someone who will run to the airport right to the gate (despite security issues) and stop you from getting on that plane!! We all dream of a guy who will love our family (despite their crazy nature and wierd habits) just as much as we love our own and they love theirs. Each day we look for some sign that what happens in the movies really exsists... and each day most of us are left knowing, with all certainty, that what happens in the movie really doesn't exsist, despite our yurning for it.


Myothercar... I am most certainly faced with moving to Washington with him.. or home! I am actually thinking of moving back to the college where I went before and going there again. I have wonderful WONDERFUL friends there, that are more like aunties to Aydan, and they have said that they, if I plan my schedule around theirs, that there will always be someone available to watch Aydan for me while I go to school part time.. or work part time! They are renting a house and have a spair room that they didnt plan on using, so they said I can live there rent free! I'd just have to make enough money to feed aydan and I and buy diapers! Even my mom wants me to do that because she feels that I need to get out on my own, without my hubby or my parents telling me what to do! I havevn't decided what to do, and only the Lord knows when I will ultimately make the decision!


I made Tilapia last night, and hubby didn't like it because it tasted like fish! Well.. DUH!!! I've never made it before.. anyone have any recipes for it??? I used a recipe I found using lime and garlic with cilantro and tomatoes! I really liked it.. buttt.... hubby didnt! If I want to make it again I need to find a hubby friendly version! Any Ideas?

Stef, I know it's hard, but I think it might be a good idea to take your friends' offer. Neither you or your hubby seem happy in your current situation. Do whatever your heart feels is right.

Sarah, I'm glad you had a good first day!

GB, I see you've gone back to the bear. I miss seeing the "real" you now. :biggrin:

Tilapia is great because it isn't "fishy" ... If he didnt like it then he probably wouldnt like it no mater how you served it... but I like to do a mango "salsa" on it..

I lightly bread the tilapia and cook it in the skillet.

A DAY ahead (so the salsa can "smelt", love that word LOL) I make the mango salsa.

1 mango, chopped small
1 red pepper, chopped small
1 red onion, chopped small
1 tablespoon parsley
1 teaspoon garlic, minced
1/4 cup pineapple juice
6 tablespoons lime juice
1 tablespoon fresh chili pepper, chopped
Salt and pepper, to taste
3 tablespoons olive oil

Stef... kind of sounds like your friends offer is perfect timing and almost a "sign" telling you that you can make it ! You deserve happiness ... we all do... ! (:

MmmMMMmmmm your recipe looks yummy! I told him that tilapia was like the least fishy of fish.. so him not liking it wasn't because it wasn't good.. because it really was! He told me next time to bread it and fry it! but the whole point of getting fish is because it is healthy.. if i go breading it and frying it... then what good is it? haha!

Anyway.. I am working on a much better dude food..POT ROAST! I love pot roast! I rubbed the seasonings on the roast last night.. and chopped the veggies and put it all in the crock pot in the fridge so I just woke up this moring.. seered the meat a little for more flavor.. then put it all on to cook! It was a great Idea doing it all ahead of time because who wants to wake up and do all that work? Hahaha! Soo... it should be done by the time hubby gets home to eat it!

great idea stef...i did that once and decided that was the way to do it , its too much work to do in the morning !! Do you put cream of mushroom soup and a package of lipton onion soup mix in with your pot roast ?? I love the "gravy" it turns into with the roast....mmmm ok, enough about food !!! lol

I feel this is the place to admit that I get Cosmo...and just got the new one...you really can learn LOTS of good and useful things ;) :biggrin: !!! I'd post some of the stuff here but....the fanboys couldn't handle it ...LOL !!!

Hey there girlie.. No I have never put cream of mushroom soup and the lipton onion soup mix in mine! I am very traditional when it comes to my pot roast! I do however take some of the broth out of the roast and make a gravy out of it.. then return it to cook for another hour with the whole roast... it turns out pretty darn yummy:)

I love cosmo.. it's a guilty pleasure... haven't got a copy in years!!! (Makes me wanna run out and go buy one:))

Morning ladies!
**laughing at AM's hubby thinking fish tastes fishy** :rotflmao2:

Stef... you have *got* to read that book I told you about!

.

what is the title of the book again? I'll look it up on half.com or ebay.. or some other cheap source to buy the book!

It's called Boundaries by Heanry Cloud and John Townsend. It does have a religious spin to it... but the practical applications are suuuper helpful.

thanks:) Im looking it up now:)

Stef, I know it's hard, but I think it might be a good idea to take your friends' offer. Neither you or your hubby seem happy in your current situation. Do whatever your heart feels is right.

Sarah, I'm glad you had a good first day!

GB, I see you've gone back to the bear. I miss seeing the "real" you now. :biggrin:

Stef....I agree!! I think your friends offers sounds great. If nothing else, it will give you time to think and perhaps take courses or work and save money. Being on your own will give you a whole new self respect, sweetie.

lol....yeah...I went back to my bear, lol...

GG....I love your new avi!! Where is that?? I stayed at a place in Jamaica that looked EXACTLY like that once!! (too bad I was vacationing w/ a girlfriend and not a s.o.! :lol)

mmmm.....pot roast.....i make goooooood pot roast! pork roast, too!!

well ladies... gotta jam! See you later!

Jamacia ? really...thats a whole lot closer...please let me know the name of the place and if you liked it or not.

This is Le Meridian in Bora Bora which is sooooo far away... someday I want to go there.... the little hut over the water....ahhhh....love it !!!!!
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Jamacia ? really...thats a whole lot closer...please let me know the name of the place and if you liked it or not.