We had a discussion about ex's saying that they love you. In this case it was an ex-husband and the lady I work with is remarried and her ex husband tells her he loves her. Okay, I my ex husband told me that I would punch him. He did try to get me to get back with him and not divorce his sorry, um, him and I was um, thanks but noooooooo thanks. So what would you do if your ex told you out of the blue that he/she loves you?

Now this can be girlfriend/boyfriend, husband/wife, and if you fence swings the other way so be it, and let's say this is years down the road or you just broke up five minutes ago.....okay I just had sugar. hehe!!

If my ex was Boone or Dom I'd be like HECK YEAH!!!!! Maybe...depending on how bad my feelings were hurt, then I'd be like "how can you say that to me you lying *****" That's a tough decision. Hmm.....let me get back to you on this. ;)

If my ex was Boone or Dom I'd be like HECK YEAH!!!!! Maybe...depending on how bad my feelings were hurt, then I'd be like "how can you say that to me you lying *****" That's a tough decision. Hmm.....let me get back to you on this. ;)


Hee hee. I would do the same for Dom if he weren't twice my age (AHHH!!!! HE ACTS LIKE HE'S TWELVE!!!).

It would depend on the reason we broke up. If he cheated on me might take him back. Rape or attempted murder of me or a loved one, maybe not so much.

You know it really does depend on the circumstance. Cheating is one of those unforgivable things for me. But that is what happened to me and many many other things. Oh , the adult life. You know I was thinking that I may have offended some people when I started this so I apologize if I have. :-*

Well, most of you know my current situation which is strange enough but.....

My ex and I tell each other we love one another quite often. Not like daily or anything but when situations call for it. We are great friends. We had a baby together but our relationship didn't work out. Neither of us did anything awful to the other, we just weren't right for each other. We have been apart for 10 years now, but I still love the guy and he loves me.

It isn't a (I want you back kind of love), but a definite love and respect for each other.

Now on the other hand, my last boyfriend, if he were to say that to me, I think I would slap him. Totally different circumstances.

So, I think it depends of the level of respect you have for an ex and what the nature of your break up was as to wether saying I love you is appropriate.

I would have to agree it depends on the circumstance of the split. Have had ex-boyfriends that will always hold a special spot in my heart but not in a romantic get back together sort of way (am happily married now). Ones that are friends and then there is the one I nearly married -many long years ago - that I would NEVER want to see again. But also I would not trade that bad time for anything because it shaped the person I am today and made me know how I would never accept being treated again.

Honestly, I wouldn't care, but thats just me lol :lol2: